Sadly, I have to agree.Hardartery wrote: ↑Thu Jul 28, 2022 9:52 pmPeople are frigging weird and have gotten weirder with the whole Covid thing.
Yeah, this has become an unfortunately familiar, and repetitive, experience.Hardartery wrote: ↑Thu Jul 28, 2022 9:52 pmI never know who the hell anyone is but they all no who I am.
I hadn't thought of it in those terms specifically, but that would explain the supposed novelty. Even had a dude at the till once lean in towards me, so no one else could hear, to say something like, "I know you ain't used to be that big. Ain't no way. We bout the same build. Tell me whatchu doin'." And he was right; very similar frames and height between us, but the emphatic manner in which he stated his point was telling.
I've noticed that it hasn't yet happened in Costco. I see plenty of dudes twice my size in there, and apparently that's where they've been hiding and getting the most for their money, protein-wise.MarkKO wrote: ↑Thu Jul 28, 2022 10:14 pmPossibly it's just the circles I've moved in but it has always seemed like there are a few big guys around no matter where I go. Not legions of them, but enough that it never seems like anyone finds the sight of a big dude particularly noteworthy. It just a case of, there goes another big unit.
It's places like Walmart where I tend to cross paths with people -- men and women -- with more time on their hands, and less imagination.
I think my height makes me more "approachable" in some people's minds, as well.
Yep. I work with a lot of people who seem to have "boundary issues," to put it lightly. I probably come across like a prude and an asshole at the same time.Hardartery wrote: ↑Fri Jul 29, 2022 12:03 pm30 year-old Susan from the PTA or the next cubicle doing the same thing is inappropriately weird, or a sad attempt at flirting which is also likely inappropriate.
But it's always been the older men who do or say the most out-of-pocket shit to try and figure out if I'd be amenable.